What to do in case of threat of violence

Threats or implies to do violence are also violence and can lead to physical acts of violence. There’s a high risk that violence follows the threat of violence. In a threatening situation, don’t turn your back on the perpetrator. Threatening with violence is a crime.

If the situation changes from threat to action and you cannot escape, call 112 as soon as you can. Shield your sensitive areas, such as your head, stomach, and large arteries.

If you feel unsafe or threatened, taking the situation seriously is crucial. Listen to your body and feelings. Trust your instincts. When the threat of violence is present, you might feel insecure, tense, nervous, or scared. Your body and nervous system sense danger. Try to stay calm and notice body language and verbal communication. You are most likely the expert on what provokes the perpetrator.

You can takethe Self-risk assessmentto evaluate the risks.

If the threat escalates or you fear for your safety, have a safety plan with an exit plan. You can find more information about the safety plan on[the Safety plan -page](https://ainoaid.fi/fi_en/article/safety-plan). A safety plan should include identifying safe spaces in your home, establishing a code word or signal with trusted individuals, and planning escape routes leaving the home, seeking temporary shelter, or staying with a trusted friend or family member.

Even if you are not ready to leave the situation temporarily or feel it is unnecessary, make a safety plan just in case.

Anticipate the situation and consider it in your safety and escape plan. When you notice signs of tension and a growing threat of violence, leave the situation or space using credible excuses such as taking out the trash or going to get groceries. After a safe distance, call for help and seek shelter.

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Preserve any evidence of threats, including text messages, emails, or voicemails. This documentation may be important for legal purposes.

Share the situation with a trusted friend, family member, or neighbor. Let them know about the threat and ask for their support.

If you are uncertain about your situation, contact, e.g.,Nollalinja. They can provide emotional support, resources, and connections.

Talking to a professional or even to a friend might help you evaluate your situation. You may be too close or familiar with the threats to evaluate their risk yourself. It might be good to make a risk assessment. You can take a self-risk assessment onthe Self-risk assessment -page.

Even if there hasn’t yet been physical violence, a threat or feeling of a threat is enough good reason for you to ask for help.

When the threat increases, don't hesitate to call**112**as soon as possible. You can also contact Nollalinja for support and guidance. They can help you evaluate your situation and support you in creating a safety plan.

Keep emergency contacts accessible. Save emergency phone numbers (the police, helpline, and trusted contacts) in your phone and keep them easily accessible. Consider also downloading the 112 app.

If you have children, it is important to note that the threat of domestic violence can have significant and long-lasting effects on children. Witnessing or experiencing violence in the home can cause profound emotional, psychological, and developmental harm. Children sense the threat. Seek help to support their well-being, include them in the safety plan, and practice escape with them.