Domestic violence refers to violence that occurs at the hands of someone close to a person. Violence can take many different forms and may last for a short time or for decades. The person committing the violence may be, for example, someone you are dating, a partner, an ex-partner, a parent, a grandparent, a sibling, or one’s own child. In many cultures, the concept of family is broad, meaning that a close person may also be a cousin, aunt, or uncle. Friends are often excluded from the definition of close relationships, even when they may be the closest relationship a person has.
Other terms that are used include intimate partner violence and family violence. Violence in close relationships occurs in all kinds of families and relationships, including polyamorous relationships, heterosexual relationships, and LGBTQI+ relationships.
Domestic violence has both physical and psychological effects on individuals and families. Some of the effects are short-term, while others are long-lasting and may even span generations.
It is often difficult to talk about domestic violence, but doing so is necessary in order to change the situation. Everyone has the right to receive help and to recover from violence in close relationships.
Help is available.Nollalinja116 016is a nationwide helpline you can call 24/7 without hesitation.
I did not see the destructive relationship I had been in all the time — Family violence survivor Miranda Siebel
“Earlier, a nurse told me something was going on with my baby daughter. She did not cry and did not start to sit up, stand up, or talk. The teacher of my son was worried about his mental health because of his drawings. I knew something was going on in our home, but I did not recognise the seriousness at all.” Read more:Medium blog
Surviving and healing from domestic violence — Survivor story Eva Wissenz
“I need to be resilient, no guilt and no shame… I think is the same need that is important to see that you are going to share your story you are just bringing oxygen to yourself, maybe people will judge you… my reaction is that we are all human and this is human business, there is no shame.” Read more:Medium blog
The rising numbers show both the positives and negatives of the statistics. Awareness campaigning has increased the number of reported incidents, which shows a growing trend.
- 1 in 4 women
- 1 in 6 men will be a victim of domestic abuse in their lifetime.
Due to the size of the problem in terms of human suffering causing economic losses, the societies and public sectors in multiple countries have started to address the issue.
Domestic violence does not only affect women, but violence against women is a big part of the problem. The annual societal costs of gender-based violence in Europe are estimated to be around 290 billion euros. Read more:European Council(2023)